PEOPLE ADDICTION
Addictions are bad…no matter what it is…but you are good…better than good…so who is wrong?? The thought or me??
Can people turn into addictions…Am not saying habit…I am talking about addictions here…the ones you become obsessed about…ok again not being obsessed with that person…but being obsessed by their presence.
One might very well have someone else in his/her life but that one person still needs to be there…even that person can have someone else…married or just seeing someone…but there is still a constant need for you to talk to them…or just hear a hi from them once a day…how exactly do we define this?? You don’t feel jealous of anyone in their life…just that you feel sad when they are not there in yours…even hurt at times
I can so well relate to this.......as you go on in life forming relationships and giving them the tags ,you are invariably bogged down with all the responsibilities that come with it and then there are those who cannot be categorized ,who just stand there watching you as you go with your life, they don't judge you ,they don't compete with your other relationships ,they accept you exactly the way you are .....and then when you tire from all the turbulence ,you just need to touch that one familiar shoulder and life seems peaceful again..
ReplyDeleteThat...exactly that!!! so well put...but then sometimes you don't even have that shoulder...just the illusion of a shoulder...hoping to touch it and finding your peace
Deleteyeah.... I know the feeling...
ReplyDeleteSo temme...is it a good feeling or a bad feeling?
Deletewhy define? You can't define truth. Can you.? You know if there has been anything beautiful, it is undefined, We have to let go. But, still a part of it, remains inside. You know what it is? The part you made your own. Let it live with you.
ReplyDeleteI like the way you have actually understood the crux of what I was trying to say...the defining part. Maybe coz it didnt have a definition it made me feel a lil less confident about it...but then as you said...it is a part of me...it is living with me...then i can embrace it with all its beauty...thanks :)
DeleteAddiction is beautiful and not everyone needs to be aware of it. Keep it within yourself and enjoy it while it lasts.
ReplyDeleteAs I replied to Gazal in the previous comment...i was lil less confident about the addiction. But now reading all these comments...it just makes me feel that we all live with it. We all probably need our lil secrets and our addictions :)
DeleteAnd so I tried sme 3 tyms to post a good....big comment! Well....seem ur blog doesn't want that :p
ReplyDeleteand now jz wanna say....Welcome back :)
How dare my blog do that to you... Hmph!!
DeleteThanks :)